Meeting roles & skills
Definitions:
- Agenda - a list of topics that will take place at a meeting.
Agendas usually include the time given to discuss each topic.
- Agenda item - a topic on the agenda.
- Brainstorming - a creative process where people generate
as many ideas as they can without evaluating them until
later.
- Facilitator - someone who coordinates the process of the
meeting.
- Go around - where each person around the room has a chance
to speak briefly about the issue.
- Minutes - the written record that documents the decisions
and participants of a meeting.
- Minute taker - someone who writes down the minutes and
types them up for the group to review at the next meeting.
- Process - the patterns of the group's interactions in
the meeting, as opposed to the content or outcome of the
meeting.
- Speaker's list - a list of who's turn it is to speak in
a meeting. If someone wants to speak, they raise their hand
or catch the attention of the facilitator. People are allowed
to speak in order of when they put their hand up. This prevents
people from interrupting others or talking a lot.
- Tabling an item - putting off a discussion until the next
meeting, often because of a need for more information or
thought.
- Timekeeper - someone who reminds the group of how quickly
the time is slipping away.
Minute taker
Minutes are very important because they create a collective
record of your activities. Minutes are used to:
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refer back to at the next
meeting to see if everyone has completed their tasks |
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reviewed at the end of the
term to see if you accomplished your goals |
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keep a record of who was in
the group |
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be a reference for new members
or a new group to follow in your footsteps |
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work with the facilitator
to verify whether the group is ready to move on the next
item. For example, to make sure it's accurate for the
record, the minute taker will read back the decision made
or tasks that have been assigned. |
Minutes must include:
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when and where the meeting
was held |
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who attended the meeting |
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approval of the minutes from
the previous meeting - that they are accurate. If not,
changes to the record must be approved by the group. |
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an outline of each item discussed
(if there were opposing viewpoints of other concerns,
you may want to record the discussion in more detail). |
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the details of each decision
make |
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a list of who volunteered
to do which tasks |
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a list of topics for the next
meeting should be recorded |
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the date and location of the
next meeting |
Making the written record
1. Handwritten minutes
The minute taker can write notes during the meeting in a
special binder. This binder must be kept in the office. If
you lose it, you lose all your records. This method takes
less work and the notes are always available for people who
missed the meeting to look at.
Handwritten minutes must be legible in order to have any
use at all.
2. Typed minutes
This means that someone takes notes, in whatever handwriting
they please, and then takes them home and transcribes it.
Then, they hand out photocopies to everyone at the next meeting
(or you can fax, mail or e-mail them to people in advance
of the next meeting so people can look through them). The
benefits are that the minutes are always legible and there
are multiple copies available. The drawback is that re-typing
the notes is time-consuming, the minutes can be late (or non-existent)
for the next meeting and a record isn't available for people
to look at right away.
Timekeeper
The main job of the timekeeper is to estimate how long it
will take to discuss an item, and to keep meetings from going
over time.
In general, the more conflict is anticipated, or more details
to be discussed, the longer the time needed.
It's important to keep on time because:
a) some members may have to leave right at the end of the
meeting
b) long meetings will deter new members and bore current ones
The timekeeper:
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must have a watch |
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ensures that all agenda items
have been assigned a time (this is decided by the group) |
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warns the group as they run
out of time. In short meeting, a 5 minute warning is enough
to start winding down a discussion on a topic. In long
meetings, it may take 15 minutes to end a discussion that's
gone for an hour. You can signal that time is running
out by announcing "5 minutes left on this topic"
during a pause in the conversation, by holding up your
hand or a piece of paper with the time remaining on it. |
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signals the facilitator when
the group is out of time on that issue. |
What happens when you're out of time.
The facilitator has two choices:
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If the meeting looks close
to resolution, the facilitator can summarize the discussion
and call for a quick test for agreement on a proposal. |
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If the issue is not resolved,
the facilitator asks everyone if they want to keep on
talking about this issue. Everyone at the meeting must
agree to keep on talking - or else the item should be
tabled until the next meeting. The discussion should have
a new time limit, it shouldn't go on forever. Check to
see what other decisions or discussions need to take place
at this meeting, or if anyone has to leave right away
before you decide to keep talking about one issue. |
Facilitator
The facilitator directs the process of the meetings, not
the content. Everyone is responsible for keeping the meeting
on time, on topic and in a good mood, but the facilitator
has some powers and duties that other people don't have. This
includes disciplining disruptive, rambling, rude and bullying
people, making a speaker's list, encouraging everyone at the
meeting to participate, summarizing issues and keeping the
discussion on topic. Facilitators need to concentrate on the
process, and can't get too involved in the topic being discussed.
Who facilitates?
Rotating facilitators at your meeting will give everyone
a chance to improve their skills at this.
In large, long or difficult meetings, people have to share
facilitation.
In controversial meetings, have an outside person facilitate.
You may all want to participate in the discussion. Ask around
for someone who is skilled in facilitation who may be able
to help you get through the meeting swiftly.
Coordinating issues
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make sure there is an agenda
(check the minutes of earlier meetings to look for tabled
issues) |
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make sure the issues are in
a logical order (ie. financial report is given before
money-related decisions are made) |
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introduce each item and ask
if everyone is familiar with the background |
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define what needs to be accomplished
(decision, announcement, approving a proposal, choosing
between two proposals, planning or taking an action) |
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if the discussion is repetitive,
sum up the points and move the discussion forward |
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sum up a proposed decision
and check for visible signs of agreement (nods, hand signals
etc.) |
Coordinating people:
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introduce any new members
of the group |
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check to see if anyone has
to leave early, this may affect the agenda |
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make sure everyone has a chance
to speak, try and encourage quiet people to speak more
and talkative people to listen more. |
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prevent conflicts between
two people from taking over the meeting (ask other people
what they have to say, tell the feuding members that they
need to speak less and listen to other people in the meeting). |
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keep a speaker's list of who's
turn it is to speak |
Special powers of the facilitator
You can interrupt people to ask them to summarize their points,
remind them to not go off topic, tell them to not interrupt
others, stop them from being rude to another person.
You can jump the speaker's list if you want to bring up a
process issue - like a limited amount of time remaining in
the meeting, to attempt to clarify an issue or summarize the
discussion
You can cut off discussion if people are off topic or repeating
themselves. Ask if anyone has something new to say or a new
proposal to make. You can also propose that the issue be tabled
until the next meeting, when you'll hopefully have more information.
Facilitating meetings
What is facilitation?
Facilitation is about clarifying the issues in a meeting,
making sure that both the product and the process are on track
with the group's stated goals, policies and philosophies.
Everyone has the responsibility to try and follow these guidelines
in the organization. In a specific meeting, someone is appointed
facilitator to be aware of the process taking place at that
time. Sometimes we may lose sight of the big picture, we may
react personally to an issue that isn't really about us, we
may not be as active is asking for clarification as we should
be and other slips in conscientiousness.
How do I learn it?
Facilitation involves a focus on process, not results. It
involves encouraging people to act cooperatively and work
collectively. Our dominant culture and education do not give
us much training in this. Unless we make a distinct effort
to change our behaviours, we tend to follow what we've been
taught. Your skills at facilitating will improve with experience,
Being in meetings and watching skilled facilitators operate
is the best way to learn.
How do I do it?
Facilitators must listen carefully to what's going on. However,
you can't get lost in the details of the meeting, listen to
the process and the larger patterns.
In order to keep sight of this process, the facilitator must
step away from involvement in producing the product of the
meeting - decisions. The facilitator cannot start debating
actively in a meeting, you participate only to alter the process
and guide the dialogue. You have certain powers during the
meeting in order to make this happen, such as jumping the
speaker's list, cutting off the speaker's list, disciplining
unruly members etc.
Tools for facilitating
As you listen, watch out for some common patterns that people
fall into in meetings. Ask yourself these questions as the
meeting goes on:
Who is talking? Does someone talk more or interrupt others?
Process objective:You want to make sure everyone has a chance
to speak
Tools:
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Make a speaker's list. |
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Use poker chips or marbles
and give everyone equal amounts. Every time you speak
(except to say yes, or asking for clarification) you put
a chip or marble into a central pot. When you've used
up your chances, you have to wait before everyone has
used up their turns. Then the marbles are redistributed
and you can speak again. This is especially handy in consciousness
raising groups and large meetings. |
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Inform someone who's interrupting
that they are doing this, sometimes people are excited
and aren't aware of it. Then warn them that they'll be
cut off the speaker's list if they persist. - Interrupt
them as they interrupt and tell them to be quiet and let
the other person speak. |
Did everyone signal yes?
Process objective: Make sure that everyone's paying attention
and if they have problems they have a chance to speak up.
Tools:
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Ask people who haven't said
anything to speak. |
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Go around the table and let
each person say yes, no or whatever. |
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Develop hand signals (eg.
thumbs up) where people can signal their approval so a
quick visual scan will let you know they're in agreement. |
Who does this situation involve/affect?
Process objective: You can't make decisions when key people
aren't there. Also, you don't want to spend meeting time working
out details between two people.
Tools:
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Try and clear the agenda,
moving items to a committee, asking people to meet quickly
after the meeting to work out details etc. |
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Make suggestions that the
item be tabled until the next meeting, that someone call
a missing member, that a committee be struck etc.
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Are people starting to repeat themselves?
Process objective: to get people to listen to each other or
to give new suggestions to the problem.
Tools:
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Point this out. Stop the speaker's
list and ask people to speak ONLY if they have something
new to say. |
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Make a proposal and test for
consensus. |
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Postpone the decision until
you have more information or new ideas. |
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Using poker chip system techniques,
limit speaking time so people aren't as tempted to repeat
others or themselves. |
Is someone telling others how they should be feeling/acting?
Process objective: to keep people focused on themselves.
Tools:
Ask people to use the format -
1.) I feel (sad, angry, afraid, appreciative, happy, safe)...
2.) Because I think.....
3.) And I want (a solution that would satisfy you)....
Ask everyone else to listen carefully. Feelings are always
valid and real. Perceptions can be mistaken, however. Listen
to what the person is asking for and find out if you can provide
that.
Is someone complaining a lot?
Process objective: to find solutions
Tools:
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Ask them to provide suggestions
or solutions. |
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Probe the problem until you
have a clear understanding of the specifics and can break
it down into manageable parts. |
Are some perspectives being left out of the meeting?
Process objective: to balance the speaking opportunities.
Tools:
Often groups have unequal representation. When speaking time
is allocated per person, you can get imbalances on a larger
scale. For example, if you have 1 disabled woman and 7 able-bodied
people, you may get 7 x the speaking time allowed for able-bodied
perspective. When dealing with issues that you think reasonably
affect different people in your group differently (eg. gender,
race, disability, class, etc), break up the speaking time
according to group - not per person. This is often called
group and caucus. The meeting can be split up into the group
(the socially dominant members) and caucus (traditionally
marginalized members) to discuss an issue. The sub-groups
can see what perspectives they share, work through issues
in a safe space, and then appoint a spokesperson. The groups
meet again and relay their points to each other. Speaking
time continues to be divided according to group. If there
is disagreement between members of either group, they may
want to meet split off again to clarify their position.
This can be done informally (without the separate meetings)
by the facilitator asking for balancing opinions or making
alternating spots on the speaker's list for a member of both
groups to speak.
Is everyone paying attention? Do they know what's going on?
Process objective: wake up and smell the coffee
Tools:
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Take a quick break. |
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Tell everyone to stand up
and stretch or play music. |
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Have games and eating breaks
in long meetings. |
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Announce a question period
before there's closure on the issue. |
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Table some non-essential items
to the next meeting. |
Is someone being rude or offensive?
Process objective: create a safe space, stop personal attacks
Tools:
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If you suspect the meeting
will be difficult, have everyone agree on ground rules
at the beginning of the meeting. You can refer back to
these rules and remind people of their agreements. |
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Cut them off right away. Let
them know their comments are out of line. If they persist
send them out of the room to cool off for 5 minutes. You
can take further action if it continues, your primary
responsibility is to make the meeting place safe. Destructive
people need to be shut down. |
Does someone drone on, talk a lot and wander off the point?
Process objective: move the meeting along, keep on topic
Tools:
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Remind people what the purpose
of the discussion is - to make a decision, to take action.
Only talk about issues that need to be discussed at this
time. |
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Interrupt them and remind
them that in view of the limited time, could they briefly
summarize their point? |
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Interrupt the meeting when
it's off topic, remind everyone how time is pressing in. |
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Speak to them after the meeting |
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If everyone is like this,
try and nail down your agenda items and time limits so
you know how much needs to be done and how tightly you
need to keep on track. |
Exercise - Establishing ground rules
for your meetings
It's important to have some ground rules for your meetings
before your group gets going. Here are some sample rules
to discuss. Go through them and talk about how you feel
about them? Which statements do you agree with? Disagree?
Are there other rules you need or would prefer?
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The facilitator shouldn't
be involved in the content of the meeting. They
should be concerned only with the process of the
discussion. |
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The facilitator should
be rotated at each meeting, so everyone gets a chance
to facilitate. |
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There should always
be two facilitators at each meeting. |
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Interruptions to request
information or clarify a point are fine, people
who interrupt to argue or jump in with their opinions
should be cut off by the facilitator. |
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People who say they
will do something and then don't should be reminded
at each meeting. After two meetings, if they still
haven't done their work, they shouldn't be allowed
to take on any more work. After three meetings has
gone by, they shouldn't be allowed to participate
in decision-making. |
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People who are affected
by a decision should be involved in making it.
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What can volunteers
or staff decide? |
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Meetings should start
on time and end on time. |
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Meetings should include
a friendly social aspect, people should be relaxed
and welcomed into the meeting whenever they arrive.
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The ideal way for a
group to work is if everyone agrees. However, if
you can't reach consensus after two or three meetings,
you should be allowed to call a vote. A 3/4 majority
is needed to decide to vote on a topic, and a 3/4
majority is needed to pass the vote. |
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Different cultures have
very different speaking styles. Groups should try
and take into account cultural expectations before
setting the rules for their meetings. |
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It's better to have
a skilled, external facilitator for long, difficult
and important meetings or to resolve conflicts.
The group should allocate money to pay someone for
this. |
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If a meeting can be
avoided, it should be. Whenever possible, the group
should try and have two or three people work on
a topic and present a proposal to the rest of the
group. People should also use mail, faxes, phone
calls, bulletin boards and other methods to reduce
the amount of time spent meeting as much as possible.
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Meetings are an integral
part of coordinating a group, they keep information
flowing and generate ideas. Meetings should be frequent
to provide feedback for everybody's ongoing work.
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by Regan McClure
Bibliography
The Perfect Meeting by David Sharman, Random House, London,
1993. An excellent, and brief, guide to holding meetings.
Include formal and business-type meetings, as well as consensus
and innovative techniques.
Effective Meetings by P. Hodgeson, Century Business, London,
1992. Another great guide to holding meetings, blending practical
tips and general theory.
Chairing a Meeting with Confidence: An easy guide to rules
and procedures by Kevin Paul, Self-Counsel Press, Vancouver,
1992. Very useful for official meetings - Annual General Meetings,
Elections of a Board, deputations etc. Includes a simplified
set of rules and loads of information on preparing for a meeting.
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