Conflict management resources

Books

Bolton, R. People Skills: How to Assert Yourself, Listen to Others and Resolve Conflicts, Toronto (Simon and Schuster). Clear and practical guide to topics listed in title.

Bush and Folger. The Promise of Mediation: Responding to Conflict Through Empowerment and Recognition (Jossey-Bass). Outlines an approach to mediation that de-emphasizes simple achievement of a settlement and emphasizes disputant self-determination and the development of their capacity to relate to one another.

Cornelius, Helena and Shoshana Faire. Everyone Can Win: How to Resolve Conflict (Simon and Schuster). Sourcebook on recognizing and resolving conflict.

Fisher, Roger and Scott Brown. Getting Together: Building Relationships as We Negotiate (Penguin Books). Sequel to the bestseller Getting to Yes (see below).

Fisher, Roger and William Ury. Getting to Yes: Negotiating Agreements Without Giving In (Penguin). Short, easy to read. The book that introduced the concepts of principled negotiation.

Hoffman, Ben. Conflict, Power, Persuasion: Negotiating Effectively (Captus Press) Description of negotiation analysis and implementation.

Macbeth, Fiona and Nic Fine. Playing with Fire: Creative Conflict Resolution for Young Adults (New Society Publishing). Excellent guide for anyone working in groups (with adults too), useful exercises.

Moore, Christopher. The Mediation Process: Practical Strategies for Resolving Conflict (Jossey-Bass). Very thorough description of theory and practical strategy for mediation in many contexts.

Tannen, Deborah. You Just Don't Understand: Women and Men in Conversation (Ballantine Books). Detailed description and case examples of conversational style differences between men and women and the misunderstandings they create.

Ury, William L., Jeanne M Brett, and Stephen B. Goldberg. Getting Disputes Resolved (Jossey-Bass, you may order it through Parentbooks, Toronto). Useful analysis and helpful ideas for designing dispute resolution systems.
 

Organizations

Call these organizations for workshops, written materials, training or other information about conflict resolution.

Family Mediation Canada, 123 Woolwich St., Guelph, ON N1H 3V1. Phone (519) 836-7750 fax (519) 836-7204. Membership includes membership in Ontario Association for Family Mediation.

The Network: Interaction for Conflict Resolution. Conrad Grebel College, Waterloo, ON N2L 3C6. Phone (519) 885-0806. National resource organization for everyone interested in dispute resolution in Canada. Membership includes membership in Society for Conflict Resolution in Ontario (SCRO).

The Society for Conflict Resolution in Ontario. A non-profit professional organization devoted to fostering alternative methods of resolving conflict in the public sector. SCRO members represent a wide spectrum of consultants, academics, lawyers, public officials and environmentalists. For local (Toronto) information cal Beate Bowron (416) 392-7571. For membership application contact The Network (above).

Community Mediation Organizations (Metro Toronto)
Conflict Resolution Service, St. Stephen's Community House, 169 Brunswick Ave. Toronto, ON M5S 2M4. Phone (416) 926-8821. Fax: (416) 966-2178. Trains volunteers to mediate neighbourhood, workplace and family disputes throughout Metro. Mediation services are free to individuals, and are available in several languages. Also functions as a Metro-wide resource centre for training and information.

Conflict Mediation Services of Downsview. 1181 Finch Ave. West, Unit 24, Downsview, ON M3J 2V8. Phone (416) 663-0471. Free community mediation in Downsview; also victim/young offender and in-school peer mediation programs.

Scarborough Conflict Resolution Service. 74 Fir Valley Court, Scarborough, ON M1L 1N9. Phone: (416) 694-1138. Free community mediation throughout Scarborough.

by Regan McClure